From The Servant of God Elisabeth Leseur.
Banish everything that is not love...
Not to accept everything,
but to understand everything;
not to approve of everything,
but to forgive everything;
not to adopt everything,
but to search for the grain of truth that is contained in everything.
To reject no idea and no good intention, however awkward or feeble.
To love others as Jesus Christ loved them, including suffering and death.