No it's not.
They're wrecking it.
I blame gay activists and gay dissenters - like New Ways Ministry - and now, the New Homophiles*. I also blame the decades long rad-feminist campaign to emasculate culture and indoctrinate children at a very young age to think that girls are equal to boys and boys must be passive and non aggressive, noncompetitive and doped up on Ritalin - oh, and not play with guns.
It has gotten to the point where gay is so not cool anymore. Who wants to be gay and just like everyone else? What happened to, "If loving you is wrong, I don't want to be right"? What is so bad about abnormal and disorderly?
Who ever wanted an Ozzie and Harriet family in the first place? Who ever wanted to be tied down and living in the suburbs and on the PTA and the Parish Council? Really? C'mon. Gay used to be interesting, avant-garde, chic and tacky at the same time. Lesbians hated men - including gay men; gay men hated lesbians. What could be more natural than that? It all just worked so well.
Now they've made it boring. It's twisted.
All this endless compassion BS, and the all are welcome-gather us in crap has gone way too far. The "How to be nice to your gay friends who need you in their lives so badly because they can't make friends with cool people unless you bend over backwards to understand them and accept their annoying manners and very weird desire to be hugged real tight by you" is just 'much too much', to quote Maggie Smith's character in Room With a View. Let these poor bastards keep something to repent of.
*I just read another Crisis article.