Holiday advice: NEVER listen to the negative voices of your family and friends.
You say, "Be kind to one another" and someone posts about how being kind is not true charity.
You say, "Don't think ill of one another" and someone calls you out for your shortcomings.
You say, "Don't judge" and someone posts a catechetical discourse on why it is important to do so.
What the hell is wrong with you people?
[Don't worry - I'll be letting you know what I think.]