Just trying to make sure he's condemned enough, or what?
Pointing out the right way and the wrong way to mourn is so important for who?
I never cared for his 'act' but I also never made any attempt to judge his soul or moral choices ...
I think it is important to be kind to those who express sympathy, and to be compassionate - even if just for the sake of his widow.
Paul speaks about being kind and compassionate in Ephesians 4:32.
Maybe try it sometime.