"There have to be factions among you in order that also those who are approved among you may become known." - 1 Corinthians 11: 17-26
In giving this instruction, I do not praise the fact that your meetings are doing more harm than good.
Please comment with charity and avoid ad hominem attacks. I exercise the right to delete comments I find inappropriate. If you use your real name there is a better chance your comment will stay put.