My apologies.

Once again, what about the children?
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I need to apologize for making assumptions about the lives and the intentions of the lesbian mothers of the children who were told they cannot re-enroll their natural children at Sacred Heart School in Boulder, Colorado next year.  The women gave their first media interview to National Catholic Reporter's editor, Thomas Fox and I find the situation more disturbing than originally reported.  I'm not aiming to continue taking sides in this situation, I'm simply apologizing for the fact I am guilty of rash judgement in the matter.  Originally I had accommodated points of view from a local lesbian couple, one of whom authored a book, and I projected their more public opinions regarding Catholic teaching on sexuality onto the Boulder couple's situation.  As most everyone else who jumped on this band wagon last week, I never heard or knew anything about the Boulder couple's personal life or viewpoint.  Today I do.  Thus far, so it seems to me, the women had been acting in relative good faith.  Read some of the excerpts from the interview with NCR.
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“They asked if we would raise our children in the Catholic faith and we said we would and we have really tried to live up to that commitment,” Martha said.
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“People have suggested that we put our children in the school to make a political point or that we are fighting this battle and making our children political footballs. This is not the case,” Martha insisted. “You are the first person we have talked to. We haven’t spoken to any of the reporters who have wanted to speak with us. We value our privacy.”
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As for Sacred Heart, the women say it has been good place for their children’s education. They say they appreciate the moral foundation the teachers have provided. They say they support the character of Catholic education. They say it is very important to them that their children be provided with religious education. “We want our kids to learn about religion. We feel religion is really important. And they love it. They love God. They love their school. They love their friends. They love their teachers,” Mary said.
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Mary and Martha each gave birth to one of the children. Legally each has joint custody of both children. The women are not legally married. They have lived in Colorado for nearly a decade and Colorado does not allow gay marriages.
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Each of the children was baptized by local priests, one who is in a neighboring parish and another who has been reassigned outside the area. The baptisms followed by months the publication of a 2006 statement issued by the U.S. bishops offering guidelines to ministers and parents of gay and lesbian children. The outlines suggest baptism for children of gays and lesbians, the women say, as long as there is a reasonable assumption that the children will be raised as Catholics.***

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“They asked if we would raise our children in the Catholic faith and we said we would and we have really tried to live up to that commitment,” Martha said. “We take them to church every week. We switched to the Sacred Hear parish when our kids starting going to the school. We signed up and our money goes into the basket every week. Our kids go to Sunday school. We are making the effort.”
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Part of the disappointment for the women is that they feel the Catholic church is now not fulfilling its part of the promise to provide all the support it can in the raising of the children as Catholics. - Children denied Catholic schooling. 
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I'm very sorry.
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Art:  Virgen de los Desamparados - Our Lady of the Abandoned Ones.  In the beginning the title of the miraculous image pertained specifically to the abandoned children of Valencia, Spain.
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*** * The Church does not support so-called same-sex "marriages" or any semblance thereof, including civil unions that give the appearance of a marriage. Church ministers may not bless such unions or promote them in any way, directly or indirectly.
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       * Similarly, the Church does not support the adoption of children by homosexual couples since homosexual unions are contrary to the divine plan. For this reason, Baptism of children adopted by such couples presents a pastoral concern. Nevertheless, the Church does not refuse the Sacrament of Baptism to these children, but there must be a well founded hope that the children will be brought up in the Catholic religion. - USCCB